I’ve been trying to post for days, but my internet is being pretty dumb. Hopefully this one will work.
If so, I’ll try to get my draft from the other day posted.
So I was sitting with Calvin at dinner the other day, and I mention how my mom thinks I have too many guy friends here.
She wants me to meet more girls.
(so apparently that’s a goal now).
Calvin replies with his opinion – he doesn’t think girls and boys can be “just friends.”
My jaw dropped so fast my chin almost landed in my pizza.
I just can’t comprehend why you would think that. Most of my friends are boys. And I don’t fool around with all of them.
Actually, I don’t fool around with any of them.
I’m friends with two guys who live down the hall from Calvin – I go down there and steal their internet and watch tv sometimes. I’m friends with Kaila’s boyfriend and, like, 4 or 5 guys on his floor, and we just chill and watch movies in a huge group. And sometimes play volleyball.
Hell, Matthew stayed the night at my house this summer, because the only time our schedules match up is 2 in the morning.
We didn’t do anything.
And it was okay with my parents and my boyfriend because they KNEW we weren’t going to anything.
So I tell this to Calvin, and he tells me that he’d never be okay with his girlfriend being alone with a guy like that.
He doesn’t trust people. Even the girl he dated for over a year.
My mind was blown.
Though this does explain why I feel like he thinks I’m slutty or something.
A lot of my friends are guys,
and apparently I can’t be “just friends” with any of them.
So in Calvin’s mind I must be sleeping with all of them?
Some people are just naive.
I’m off to do more homework now though.
Peace, Love & Friendship,